anyone can help me, please i need help.

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Registered: 08-08-2009
anyone can help me, please i need help.
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Sat, 02-06-2010 - 9:11pm

where to start. some of you may know that i have been out of my house since last august. i did come back a bit, tried to give my marraige a fair shot, and was not happy.

MoonUnit

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Registered: 04-05-2007
Mon, 02-08-2010 - 10:08am

If the police are saying there's nothing you can do and he was within his legal rights, I don't think anyone here would be able to help you. Unless, perhaps, there's a lawyer here or a legal aide who knows about some loophole.

I WOULD suggest that you file legal separation papers pronto so that nothing else like this happens! Are there any joint bank accounts, etc. that he could wipe out? Any shared credit cards that he could charge to the max and leave you with the bills or bad credit? He may be getting advice from a lawyer about things he can do that you WON'T be able to do anything about.

So that's my other suggestion - it's time to talk to a lawyer about what YOU should be doing to protect yourself!

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Mon, 02-08-2010 - 10:10am
P.S. - I'm sorry it took days for you to get a response here, it seems this board is pretty slow lately! I remember when there would be pages of posts in one day... now it looks like one page contains several days worth of posts!
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Mon, 02-08-2010 - 4:47pm
it looks like my husband had this so well planned out. he can take my stuff, and the law says it's ok. how messed up is that. he has my car. i went on line, and i guess i can file for a divorce without a lawyer. i'm going to look into it more. thanks .

MoonUnit

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Registered: 08-08-2009
Mon, 02-08-2010 - 5:07pm
i just signed up for a legal resource where an attorney will be assigned to me.

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