Anyone deliriously happy in their 'A'

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Registered: 03-28-2004
Anyone deliriously happy in their 'A'
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Sun, 03-28-2004 - 8:35am
I am very new, but have been reading a lot on here and am wondering if anyone is deliriously happy in their affair or is it always a case of three part negative to one part positive. I'm right on that hairy edge of jumping into the physical part. I already love all the flirting and anticipation. It would seem that my spouse doesn't suspect a thing or doesn't care. What part of this might I be missing?

Also, where may I find a listing of the abbreviations? I'm really struggling with a few!

Thanks

Bis

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Registered: 01-02-2004
Sun, 03-28-2004 - 8:42am
Hi Bis! I am kind of new here too. :) I have read both positive and negative posts about A's. It seems like the general consensus is that an A is a lot like a rollercoaster (which I can tell you it definitely is). When I first came here a few months ago, someone told me that, and it makes total sense. There are ups and downs, and the highs feel really high, and the lows feel really low. Sometimes I wonder why I got myself into this mess!

I don't know where there is a list of abbreviations, but I am sure one of the guys/gals that has been here a long time may know of such a list.

Does your spouse know the other person? It is truly possible that your spouse just doesn't suspect.

Welcome to the board! :)

Circe