Anyone else actually having fun?

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Registered: 01-15-2009
Anyone else actually having fun?
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Tue, 01-20-2009 - 10:48am
So, I have been reading all the posts, and believe me, ladies (and men) I do feel your pain. I am new to this ride, but I can imagine that at times, it does get painful. But I'm just wondering.....is anyone else out there, whether in the early stages of an A, or in a long term A, having fun with their AP? I mean, forgive me if I sound callous, but.....isn't fun the whole point of an A?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-08-2007
Tue, 01-20-2009 - 8:52pm
that is sweet. 8 years is a long time. i wish you well.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-17-2006
Tue, 01-20-2009 - 9:39pm
I had alot of fun with AP when we were actually in contact with one another, and it was all fun when we saw one another. I think the frustration with my AP was the weeks that went by with no contact..it was a LD thing, and he has a high profile job, around the world travel, yada yada yada....I guess I'm a bit selfish and wanted more of his attention..more phone calls, more emails...more...and that is when it wasn't fun anymore.
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Registered: 05-24-2007
Tue, 01-20-2009 - 9:52pm
YES!!
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Registered: 01-22-2009
Thu, 01-22-2009 - 12:01pm

I am having a great deal of fun. I enjoy both relationships. I am in love with both my AP and W. I enjoy my A and my AP to the fullest. My AP is an important part of my life and I cannot imagine being without her but it has been all fun. Are circumstances are different but maybe that is why we work so well. We have gone out on dates and we do spend a lot of time together at least several hours a week and talk and e-mail constantly.

We have soo much fun......... it works for both of us. Most of my A have been based on fun...... they don't always end that way - they seemed to fade away......... but this one seems to burn much brighter but we shall see what time holds........

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