Anyone else have the same reason?

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Registered: 10-14-2003
Anyone else have the same reason?
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Mon, 11-03-2003 - 2:13pm
is nyone else out there in a physical only relationship with their MM? EH says that eh has a perfect marraige except that he does not get any sex at home. I do get some, but not enough and the rejection is often and hurtful. MM & I come to each other just to fill our physical needs. Sex, kisses (I NEVER get kisses at home), and all the rest. Is this o.k.? It seems everyone else onthe board had their EMAs develop out of a frienship with someoe else. Yes we started out flirting, and talking, but for the most part its been totally physical. First flirting and drty talk, now sex. We did take what I consider to be a step this weekend. We actuallt met on the weekend. Usually it is just at lunchtime. We had to get a little creative. But in a way it meant something to me for him to meet me ona weekend. Even if it was only for sex, and only for an hour. The weekend is his time, for him and his family. And he took time away for me. This was also the first time he had to lie to meet me. Any thoughts from you all out there?
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Registered: 09-09-2003
Mon, 11-03-2003 - 2:46pm
I'm with you, our relationship started as a sexual thing, we met each other for that reason, although on my part I've let it become emotional I guess. But we were meeting once a week at a favorite hotel. And usually email steamy conversations on a daily basis. He says his marriage was perfect except no sex. Then lately when I ask about his marriage he says it is "just okay", still no sex. Unfortunately, I haven't talked to him for about 4 weeks, really miss him alot. Hoping to get back together though, I really need to see him bad if you know what I mean!!
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Registered: 07-27-2003
Mon, 11-03-2003 - 2:56pm
Just be careful, because try as you may, it's pretty hard not to get emotionally involved. From what I've learned here, it seems that a lot of women did not want to get involved -- just wanted good sex and light friendship (that's what I wanted), and before you know it, you are falling for him. So beware!!

Good luck,

Charlotte


Edited 11/3/2003 2:57:21 PM ET by charlotte1203

 

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Registered: 10-14-2003
Mon, 11-03-2003 - 3:18pm
I am trying not to get my heart into it. I keep playing over and over again the good the good things he has said about his marriage to distence myself.

Dusty, I know what you mean for sure! We went over a week just by a few days, and I was more than ready to meet. I had to drive about 30 min to meet him, but it did not matter!!!

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Registered: 06-24-2003
Wed, 11-05-2003 - 12:42am

Hi Kitty,


I say... if you can keep it physical... make the most of it!! :)


While my EMA started out as friends... we met online... so we had to start somewhere.

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