Anyone far more attractive than MM's W?
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| Mon, 04-05-2004 - 6:41pm |
I have had the opportunity to meet and hang out with MM's wife on several occasions. Now, I'm being extremely mean here (I'm NOT like this in real life), but she's definitely not the most attractive person in the world. Overweight despite never having kids, a not-so-pretty face, strange body shape, shorter not so great hair. I'm not a model, but I've stayed lean my whole life, nice hair, pretty good looking. I've been told my butt is ideal. :)
However, MM's wife is the NICEST person in the world. Very much of a sweetheart. She does everything for MM.
I'm a pretty nice woman, too, but I'd never wait on him hand and foot quite like she does. So I feel pretty rotten about that. But at the same time, I really can't blame MM for seeking some lovin' outside his marriage.
For me, it makes it so I really have NO jealousy about MM's wife at all.

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What I DO KNOW, is how much he likes my looks. The compliments about my body, etc. are never ending and i LOVE that.
Dusty
My W is very pretty. She has a very "classic" look; the kind that men like, but over the years I've personally heard a lot of women say to her "you're so pretty." Kind of weird actually. I think my friends' women talk about her more than my friends do. She's blonde, dresses professionally or hip casual, slightly overweight but great hair, beautiful smile and very full breasted. Oddly enough... that's not really the kind of woman I'm most attracted to, which she knew before we got together because we were friends.
The OW... very petite, not nearly as pretty though she is attractive in a "radiating sensuality" way. Funny, she's gained about 15 pounds in the last six months (and still very small) and thinks her chest is big... like a small 34C. She saw my W for the first time last weekend... laughed and said, "Oh, now I know why you never really comment when I say I have big boobs now." Afterwards she did remark that I "never told her the B was so pretty. Made me want to back into her big, pretty car."
The dynamic... no effect. The OW is incredibly sensual and very complementary to my interests and ideas. She knows that I didn't choose my W based on her looks and I didn't choose her (the OW) on looks either. I know she doesn't love that my W makes a lot of money and has a nice car and is pretty and everything else, but I think she knows that my feelings are not based on those things, and obviously my happiness isn't either.
rain
But I also think I am pretty attractive myself. I dont really think it has any affects on the dynamics of our R. But am I jealous of her , sometimes I am but only because of the fact that (from what he says, so i take it with a grain of salt , cause there are 2 sides to every story) she dont really appreciate all the things he does and stuff. It ticks me off sometimes but...I dont say anything to him I usually listen and then i call my girlfriend and bitch about it to her. But in the end I try to remind myself what this is all about and the fact remains that she is his W & I will always be the OW & I have a H... this will always be an A....MGT
I have heard her on his cell, and she isn't very nice to him. Friend of theirs divorced due to an affair and she made a comment about men who have affairs usually end up with a woman who is exactly like the wife they left them for.. he called me that night and said to me that she and I could be more different.. I guess it is what attracted him to me.
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