Anyone far more attractive than MM's W?
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| Mon, 04-05-2004 - 6:41pm |
I have had the opportunity to meet and hang out with MM's wife on several occasions. Now, I'm being extremely mean here (I'm NOT like this in real life), but she's definitely not the most attractive person in the world. Overweight despite never having kids, a not-so-pretty face, strange body shape, shorter not so great hair. I'm not a model, but I've stayed lean my whole life, nice hair, pretty good looking. I've been told my butt is ideal. :)
However, MM's wife is the NICEST person in the world. Very much of a sweetheart. She does everything for MM.
I'm a pretty nice woman, too, but I'd never wait on him hand and foot quite like she does. So I feel pretty rotten about that. But at the same time, I really can't blame MM for seeking some lovin' outside his marriage.
For me, it makes it so I really have NO jealousy about MM's wife at all.

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But they do. Personality OF COURSE is the real litmus test on whether a relationship can be sincere and long-lasting. But you cannot say that physical attraction does not matter at all. I mean, come on, be honest.
And we never discuss the OW's looks. Ever. I would never, ever say that I think she's ugly to him or to her.
It affects the dynamic in SUBTLE and INDIRECT ways, not obvious ways. He never says I'm more beautiful than his wife, or anything that blatant. But, for example, I think OW's self-esteem regarding her looks is low because it has affected their sex life. He says sex with them is just like a duty, just roll over and do it. She puts no passion into it. If she doesn't like the way she looks, that's going to affect her personality in bed.
About feeling good in bed, its mostly confidence not a matter or beauty. THe more confident you are more active in bed. JMHO
To be confident in bed doesn't take to be a VS model. It takes willingness to have sex, trying to alleviate boredom in the bedroom by trying out new things and trying to understand your partners needs. The MM/OM did fall in love with the W/GF at one point and did enjoy making love to her body - lets not forget that. JMHO
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