anyone help??

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-27-2003
anyone help??
3
Fri, 01-16-2004 - 1:43pm
i seen om last night -- i tried to break it off with him -- everytime i try he comes up with some logical excuse why he can't leave his girl -- basically he keeps saying the same thing over and over again -- i don't want to be second best ANYMORE ! he says i am selfish- i don't want to be involved anymore - i am afraid of the outcome - i will turn 30 yrs old 2 yrs from now and STILL be the other woman!!!!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2003
In reply to: trisha8175
Fri, 01-16-2004 - 1:57pm
So dump him. You don't need his permission to move on.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2003
In reply to: trisha8175
Fri, 01-16-2004 - 2:01pm
HI Trisha

Your are not the one being selfish he is.

He is not concerned with your happyness only in what he wants.

You need to take what ever steps you have to to protect your future, do not allow your self to be used any more.

FREE

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: trisha8175
Fri, 01-16-2004 - 2:21pm
hey trisha, you've answered your own question honey! he's not leaving and you don't want to be second anymore, so why are you waste your precious 20s WAITING FOR THIS GUY!!!

go out and have fun, dance with your girlfriends, date, date, date!!! don't ever "settle" for less than you are entitled to, which is respect, love, happiness and above all, great sex! there's a single guy (or 4!) out there for you.

YOU'VE GOT TO PLAY TO WIN!

gurl