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| Wed, 11-12-2003 - 11:00pm |
Lately he's been pushing me to get away for a few days to come down to see him before his family joins him. We have been good friends for years and become intimate about a year ago. I would give anything to go see him but to get away from my own husband for a few days would be very tricky. I can make an excuse to get away for a couple of hours, but how would I justify a whole weekend? I just don't feel comfortable with this and am afraid that my husband would find out.
Part of me is upset that he didn't try harder to see me before he left but he says he's pushing me now because we may never have a chance to be together again. I know he had alot of stress to deal with before he left town but I feel like he's asking alot of me. He says when he comes back to town to move his family he probably cannot get away to see me.
Both of us have marriages that we are questioning if we really want to end it or if the issues in our relationships can be overcome.
We both think about each other all the time and I do think I love him but have never told him. I'm not sure if he loves me or not but I know he has feelings for me.
I know I'm just venting my frustrations but if anyone has any insight or advice I'd really appreciate it.

Edited 9/20/2004 1:54 pm ET ET by seansluv