Anyone in a Long-Term Affair?
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Anyone in a Long-Term Affair?
| Tue, 10-21-2003 - 8:39pm |
I need to chat with someone who can relate...
I've been in a relationship with a married man for over 10 yrs (I'm married also).
Both are marriages have been over for so long but we both stay for the kids only and plan to leave when the are older. Which is now about 3-4 yrs away now.
It started out for just some fun but has grown to deep, deep feelings for each other.
We are now so close to the kids being almost grown that we talk about the future.
Even though I know he doesn't have a "relationship" with his wife, it is sooo painful to deal with the fact that they still do so much together "with the kids".
I believe everything he tells me but this still sounds so cliche'!
Can anyone relate to any of this? I sometimes wish I never got on this roller coaster ride and want off, and then I realize I don't know what I would do without him in my life.
just need someone that can relate to the happiness and heartache that this type of life brings.
I've been in a relationship with a married man for over 10 yrs (I'm married also).
Both are marriages have been over for so long but we both stay for the kids only and plan to leave when the are older. Which is now about 3-4 yrs away now.
It started out for just some fun but has grown to deep, deep feelings for each other.
We are now so close to the kids being almost grown that we talk about the future.
Even though I know he doesn't have a "relationship" with his wife, it is sooo painful to deal with the fact that they still do so much together "with the kids".
I believe everything he tells me but this still sounds so cliche'!
Can anyone relate to any of this? I sometimes wish I never got on this roller coaster ride and want off, and then I realize I don't know what I would do without him in my life.
just need someone that can relate to the happiness and heartache that this type of life brings.

Hang in there,
Silly
Edited 11/13/2003 7:42:45 AM ET by mommykitty2003
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