No, he doesn't and he doesnt know aout A. It has only been going on for about 1 month and is getting pretty serious. Me and H have a 14 month old son and have been married 1.5 years. I met the OM in a class we took together. We instantly clicked and have been "seeing" eachother ever since. I never thought I would have an A. I am confused wit the whoel thing. I dont know if I should get a D or stay. H will find out I figure at some point then it will be over. I dont knwo if I should end A or not but, i am falling in love with the OM. What about you?
I am too. Right now it is pretty much an emotional A. It is also semi-long distance. We really don't live that far apart but we hardly get to see each other.
I'm just as confused as you but I figure time will tell me. I'm not all that sure about OM either. He won't open up to me and tell me what all he wants from this R/A. If he wants more or sees us in the future together.
He has been seen dancing with another girl but anytime I call him he's available for me. So I don't know if she's just a friend or what.
My H and I have been having problems forever. He's physically and verbally abusive and he's also had an A about 3 years ago. Our M was broken way before my OM came into my life. OM just made me realize how much I'm worth. He makes me like me and feel confident about me. Because after H affair, I was devastated and felt like I wasn't worth a penny, I felt ugly, my self-esteem was crushed.
Well, my whole world turned and I thank and love OM for that. The only thing is I do want a D but I'm thinking about it long and hard because I don't want to make the wrong decision as I have two kids which it will affect much. And OM is H friend. Not good friend, well I guess you could call him an acquaintence.
I miss him so much when I'm not around him and he says he misses me but we just never talk about my M except he does state things like "well because you're in your perfect M" which is not but I don't tell him everything. He knows that H had a A and that he is/was abusive. And says he'll give me 500 kisses and hugs for every time H abused me. He is the sweetest thing that has ever happened to me. I've been in this A I guess for 5 months now. And it just happened I didn't go out looking to have it.
And I know if I leave the M it's not because of the A. Our M has been broken for years now. I just got enough guts to tell H that I wanted out about 3 months ago but he doesn't want me to leave so I stayed but H keeps bringing it up. So I think in a matter of months we'll be separated. I just don't want it to be painful to H, I still care for him, I just don't love him anymore. Although, he hurt me in many ways, I wish the best for him and hope he does find someone else to fill his emptiness.
I know this was long, sorry. Tell me more about your A and M.
I am an MW with SM too. I am almost married... LOL, I am separated you see from H. Right now are taking it slow. Both of us a busy with work so that helps too. I hoping to end up with him someday. I dunno when though. Hope that helps
He has been seen dancing with another girl but anytime I call him he's available for me. So I don't know if she's just a friend or what.
My H and I have been having problems forever. He's physically and verbally abusive and he's also had an A about 3 years ago. Our M was broken way before my OM came into my life. OM just made me realize how much I'm worth. He makes me like me and feel confident about me. Because after H affair, I was devastated and felt like I wasn't worth a penny, I felt ugly, my self-esteem was crushed.
Well, my whole world turned and I thank and love OM for that. The only thing is I do want a D but I'm thinking about it long and hard because I don't want to make the wrong decision as I have two kids which it will affect much. And OM is H friend. Not good friend, well I guess you could call him an acquaintence.
I miss him so much when I'm not around him and he says he misses me but we just never talk about my M except he does state things like "well because you're in your perfect M" which is not but I don't tell him everything. He knows that H had a A and that he is/was abusive. And says he'll give me 500 kisses and hugs for every time H abused me. He is the sweetest thing that has ever happened to me. I've been in this A I guess for 5 months now. And it just happened I didn't go out looking to have it.
And I know if I leave the M it's not because of the A. Our M has been broken for years now. I just got enough guts to tell H that I wanted out about 3 months ago but he doesn't want me to leave so I stayed but H keeps bringing it up. So I think in a matter of months we'll be separated. I just don't want it to be painful to H, I still care for him, I just don't love him anymore. Although, he hurt me in many ways, I wish the best for him and hope he does find someone else to fill his emptiness.
I know this was long, sorry. Tell me more about your A and M.
I am an MW with SM too. I am almost married... LOL, I am separated you see from H. Right now are taking it slow. Both of us a busy with work so that helps too. I hoping to end up with him someday. I dunno when though. Hope that helps
Juliet