Anyone Out There Mostly in As for Sex?

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Registered: 12-15-2003
Anyone Out There Mostly in As for Sex?
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Sat, 12-13-2008 - 11:37am

hi ladies,


just wondering if there are any other girls out there like me, not looking for some much as a way out, but just to mostly have fun and great sex??

~k

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Registered: 11-21-2008
Wed, 12-17-2008 - 5:39pm
My A is strictly sex and we both know it and like it that way. My AP is just about the sexiest man I've ever met and I cannot control myself. However, I would not want to be his W, and I doubt he could handle being my H, so we're better off- or I am anyway- with our S and just having the occasional sexcapade.
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Registered: 01-25-2007
Wed, 12-17-2008 - 5:55pm
Ditto. I would like to think that it is all about s**x, and that I will never leave my M..... but I must also admit that deep beneath I do have feelings fof her. She is just everything that I look for in a woman. Now considering that yours is merely for sex, would you hesitate to jump into another A if chance is on your side?
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Registered: 11-21-2008
Wed, 12-17-2008 - 8:31pm
Well, there are feelings I think, but they are not deep. I mean, we've only been together twice. It's not even an A so much as a FWB/FB situation. But we have a lot in common and we connected for months without any sexual contact just getting to know each other.... so I shouldn't say the connection is only sexual. As for another A, I don't know. I am just going with what's going on. I have a small child and a H, so I do have my hands full in addition to work. That being said, it would be nice to have someone closer. My AP lives many many states away. We txt or talk a few times a week. I just took the first step towards planning a brief trip to visit before we see each other again at a work function which is months away. But, there are things about current AP that might be hard to replace... so to answer your question, I would definitely hesitate to jump into another A.... sorry for the long answer/roundaboutness...

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