AP bragged about us - I feel cheap

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Registered: 02-23-2009
AP bragged about us - I feel cheap
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Mon, 12-07-2009 - 2:34pm

This weekend we had a get together and AP brought a male friend with him. The male friend was hitting on me all night. My H was there and was not happy about the situation. Away from the crowd, the guy stuck his tongue in my mouth and I had to hold back a slap to keep from calling attention to

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Registered: 12-02-2009
Mon, 12-07-2009 - 3:50pm

You have every

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Registered: 12-18-2008
Mon, 12-07-2009 - 8:07pm

Wow, what a nasty boy you got mixed up with there. I feel bad for you. It reminds me about h.s. where 'word gets around' because the boys have to brag. :(

Sounds to me like your guy either was ready to end it with you anyway, or is just plain stupid to talk you up that way. Smart AP knows how to behave to keep us in bed. If any of my AP did that to me, that would be the END of the goodie train, period!

-jana

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Registered: 08-09-2009
Mon, 12-07-2009 - 8:56pm

Im sorry you are so upset right now. You went into this A with him thinking it would be Ok and you could seperate feelings but this has shown that you cannot do that. Unfortunately it has shown that HE can and does by crowing about his conquest to his friend and even allowing him to hit on you. What a sleazebag!!!!

IMO you owe him squat. No talk, no explanation necessary. If he made you sound that you were open for business like his friend assumed, then i doubt that anything you say will affect him.

Stay away from this slime of a man and use this experience to remember exactly how cheap he made you feel. Love or even friends dont do this to each other.

Hugs.

SB

Que Sera Sera - Whatever will be, will be.
Que Sera Sera - Whatever will be, will be.
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Registered: 12-03-2007
Mon, 12-07-2009 - 11:14pm

>>>I want to tell him what a jerk I think he is and let him know I'm not his wh*re and there will be no further get togethers between the

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Registered: 11-13-2008
Tue, 12-08-2009 - 7:24am

This is sooo degrading!! This clearly shows that your AP himself doesnt respect you because if he did then NO one can degrade you like this.Period.

I would tell AP what the guy did and then end completely.No listening to excuses or sorrys later.
how horrible.(( hugs))

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Registered: 05-12-2009
Tue, 12-08-2009 - 11:28am

I wouldn't waste my time talking to him. If he gave a damn he wouldn't have given your number to his friend. You knew he was just in it for the sex; he just confirmed it. It will feel better in the long run if you just cut the idiot off.