AP cheated on me-sick -help
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AP cheated on me-sick -help
| Thu, 02-11-2010 - 11:53am |
Hey there-
MM w AP for 2 years. Just found out she cheated on me. She went on business for two weeks and hooked up with some guy. Blew me away. She has always been a 10 in being attentive to me and then dropped to 1 for the last two weeks. She has been lying to me for a week and she finally spilled it

Is your AP married or single? Strangely, if she's married I would view this as cheating on you (weird and illogical, but that's how I would feel), but if she's single, I'd say she has every right to seek out other options.
I'm a MW with a single man and if he did that I'd want him to be honest but I wouldn't view it as "cheating", because he should be able to find a "real" relationship. I have no intention of leaving my H so he has every right to want a family of his own.
Have you and your AP discussed a future together? If you have, and you plan to leave your wife, then you might have more validity to the "cheating" charge.
All that aside, I know you're hurting and I'm sorry for that. I hope you and your AP use this as an opportunity to sort out what you both want from each other and what you can both expect from each other.
You've got a lot of choices. I
Lexi,
Thks for your reply. She is married. I view it as cheating. She has made it very clear that she does not want me to be with anyone else including my wife.
We have discussed a future together and this is hurtful. Your last sentence is brilliant as we will need to sort out or expects for sure.
I have always told her that if she wants to date others be my guest. I just dont want that type of relat.
You've got a lot of choices. I
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In my second post I states that SHE did not want me to sleep w anyone else. So kind of double standard. I'm not looking to spread my seed or eggs in too many baskets. Just one good one. So we'll see.
Amexdm