AP confessed many partners

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Registered: 12-03-2009
AP confessed many partners
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Mon, 07-12-2010 - 11:00am

So things have been going very well with my new AP (met thru Ashleymadison).

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Registered: 03-29-2010
Mon, 07-12-2010 - 11:11am
Yikes!! And now you've become a cautionary tale about ALWAYS using protection no matter what someone tells you! I'm so sorry oh_my_my, you must be beside yourself with worry. I know I would be. YIKES again. Yes, get ALL the tests. Even HIV seems to have become more of a "chronic condition" when treatment is started early, so it's best to know soon. And there are NO symptoms of HIV, you end up getting symptoms of AIDS (sometimes 10 years after exposure), and by then, you're dealing with a fatal illness, not the "chronic condition" of being HIV positive. See your doc ASAP. And keep us updated!

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Registered: 12-24-2009
Mon, 07-12-2010 - 1:45pm
your mad at him for not using protection in his last affair
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Mon, 07-12-2010 - 1:52pm

She's mad at him for lying to her and saying there was only one affair two years ago, when in reality he's been with 25 or so women since then with NO protection. The reason she didn't use protection is because they had the "talk" and he seemed to be "safe" as an unprotected sex partner.

I was thinking about this oh_my_my, and you're really lucky that he came clean about this. If he didn't, you would still be unaware. Just thank the powers that be that he did come clean.

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Registered: 03-26-2010
Mon, 07-12-2010 - 1:53pm

Hmm...that is probably on the list of things he should have told you BEFORE YOU HAD SEX!!! Geesh!

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Registered: 12-03-2009
Mon, 07-12-2010 - 2:31pm

Yes Lexi.