AP contacted me after 6 months

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-29-2008
AP contacted me after 6 months
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Thu, 02-05-2009 - 11:30am

Little history for you...Ap and I saw each other for about 5 months...he is also my H bf.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-08-2007
Thu, 02-05-2009 - 12:01pm
be careful and watch yourself.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-29-2008
Thu, 02-05-2009 - 12:08pm

Thanks, it is what it is for now anyway.


It just really felt good to be with him again, it was one of those I had to have that feeling again.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-31-2008
Thu, 02-05-2009 - 3:54pm

Why would you do it to yourself?
You are separated - this is the hardest part...go out and meet people who have something to offer, something real and meaningful. Why do you need that AP back?

Love and hugs,
Vivacious

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-29-2008
Thu, 02-05-2009 - 4:02pm

The reason we stopped seeing each other to begin with was because my H confronted him.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-12-2008
Thu, 02-05-2009 - 4:43pm

IDK...I think you have already seen where it will go so I do not think you have to worry about the "What If"s or "What Could Have Been"s. He is married...you already know the answer...it will go nowhere.


As long as you are not shutting the door on the single guys out there. Also, do not let a man define who you are. You should feel good about yourself without one.