AP Interation with W vs. Me
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AP Interation with W vs. Me
| Thu, 08-28-2008 - 9:55am |
I’ve been friends with AP for 5 years; we have been seeing each other for almost a year now. We both think of world of each other and believe that we fit better than anyone else we have ever been with.

This is all just my opinion. I think it's necessary for you to evaluation your A and talk to your AP about all of this stuff.
Part of me wants to say, "Run!"
I would get a little suspicious if my AP told me that there had been 3 other A's before ours. I don't know anything about your A or about your AP- but I think it at least warrants an explanation on his part. (Were they one night stands? Did he love them? What were his reasons for starting those As?)
There are two sides to every story. And you are lucky enough to get to hear both. Your APs and his W. Most of us only know what our APs tell us. If they don't sync up then you need to realize that someone is lying.
I really think that you need to ask him about these things. You need to really know who he is if you're planning on moving in together at the end of the year. And how he feels- about the issues his W mentioned- are a big part of who he is.
Just my opinion. Hope it helps!
Sneaking Fruit
It seems to me that he has some issues about women in general that would disturb the hell out of me. Yes, all couples interact differently, but people's basic beliefs on topics such as the opposite sex, don't change. And I would be more than a little concerned about a man so arrogant that he has no problem coming right out and saying that men just get to do certain things that women can't because they're men, and calling any type of true criticism of men as "bashing". This is the type of man that would have an excuse justifying just about anything he did. I'm willing to bet he's controlling, too.
I'd run, but that's me. I can't stand this type of man. The world is filled with women
******************************************* “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over againI would be very hesitant to think that both your M's will be ending by the end of the year and you two will be married after that...not likely to happen.