AP married or not?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-07-2008
AP married or not?
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Thu, 10-02-2008 - 1:52pm

Ok...I have a question for all of you. Just wondering how many of us are involved in A's with AP who is not married? How you handle that and if AP becomes more demanding of your time or does he?

I recently posted about my AP and I ending everything due to him wanting that. I respected it. We have not spoken since and I don't intend to. However and I know what everyone is going to think....this girl is CRAZY!!!! I have recently had an old friend come back into my life. We have been talking for several weeks now. Catching up on time. We had not spoken in years. We have discussed going to different levels now that we in different times of our lives. He is single. I am M. He knows about my previous A. Has been very supportive. I know about his previous relationships being that one of them was with my best friend...at that time. He does not live here so it can't go into a PA very easily but I do believe its an EA for sure. We talk just about everyday. Its really nice having him back in my life. Its like we picked up right were we left off years ago.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-29-2008
Thu, 10-02-2008 - 2:25pm
My AP is M and so am I although I wish it had been with someone who wasn't.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-28-2008
Thu, 10-02-2008 - 2:59pm
My AP is not married, he lives with his gf.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-04-2007
Thu, 10-02-2008 - 3:07pm

My AP is not m but is d and has a GF.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2006
Thu, 10-02-2008 - 11:24pm
My AP is S. He thinks I am D.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-09-2008
Fri, 10-03-2008 - 2:38am

I am separated, but was M when my A started. AP is M. I fell for AP and find it very difficult sometimes, because I have more time than he does. I can see him almost any time he can find to see me. Having said that, I live under the same roof as H, so I still have some restrictions, but not on the same level. I find myself wanting more all the time with AP, but I know he isn't going to ever leave W.

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