AP offered new job
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| Tue, 07-28-2009 - 10:48pm |
My AP has been offered a job with a rival company that for many reasons which I can't go into here would be a good career move for him. He's older and very experienced and has become fed up with the company we both work for.
Also in his personal life it would make his home life easier - we had a DDay and his wife knows that we had become "friends" - and she flips out at least once a week knowing we still work together. this is her dream come true.
But my AP is torn. Because of me. We love knowing we can see each other every day right now - even if just for 15 minutes. He thinks we can still maintain a relationship if he moves on - he thinks it might be easier to meet up for lunch or a drink.
I think he's wrong. I think that if he leaves we will call back and forth at first but we will no longer be a team at work, it will be even harder to see each other. It feels like my heart is breaking. He tells me all of the time that he can't imagine his life without me in it - and that I need to have faith that if he does move we will make it work. I think he's being unrealistic.
So do I urge him to go for it - because I love him - and it would be a good move for him OR do I tell him how I feel - that I don't want him to leave - that I predict it will be the end of our R.

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I am so sorry for your pain, but it sounds like you made the right decision.
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