AP provides emotional security

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-06-2008
AP provides emotional security
2
Thu, 10-23-2008 - 10:11pm

I've posted here a few times....I'm mostly a lurker.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-06-2008
Fri, 10-24-2008 - 5:49am

As a S women w/ a MM, I can understand where your coming from. My AP is in a sexless marriage, and no kids. He helps me financially, and is just generally a great b/f, but the fact that there is a wife does bother me. Things were bad long before I came along, so I didn't feel as much guilt when he said he was leaving her. I think he knew it was a major obstacle in the growth of our R, that and I told him that I was going to start seeing other people because what I was getting wasn't enough.

It's tough sharing something that means so much to you. I know I couldn't do it indefinitely. I have to see the light at the end of the tunnel.

Your AP sounds SOO sensitive, God I wish all men where like that. It also sounds like he loves you deeply (based on what I read.) I would make a decision soon because he sounds like he is hooked. Good luck in whatever you choose.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-06-2008
Fri, 10-24-2008 - 8:33pm

Hi Justice,


Thanks for your response.