AP told me he loves me

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Registered: 01-08-2011
AP told me he loves me
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Thu, 03-08-2012 - 12:42pm

I don't know why I am surprised but I am.

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Registered: 07-31-2011
Thu, 03-08-2012 - 1:00pm

Hi Kittery. Wow. I don't really know what to say. How did you feel when he told you? How did you respond? I hope this doesn't change the dynamics of your R if you are not happy about this, as you seem to be in a good place at the moment. Let it sink it, i'm sure it was a shock.

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Registered: 04-15-2011
Thu, 03-08-2012 - 1:02pm
Maybe you believe you are unworthy somehow ? Take it easy.
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Registered: 01-08-2011
Thu, 03-08-2012 - 2:49pm

thank you for responding ladies!

I realize that the way it came about was not romantic but I think he is being truthful.

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Registered: 07-31-2011
Thu, 03-08-2012 - 3:25pm
I'm sure your AP knows this too. Ultimately they are just words, however the things he says, does and makes you feel will show his love for you.
From what you've said previously, you are and always have been so level headed about your relationship with AP...I admire you for that. I'm sure you won't let that change what you have.
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Registered: 10-03-2011
Thu, 03-08-2012 - 5:57pm

I agree with Titchy. I can understand the fear and doubt you have about his revelation. However, for now try to put that aside. He has obviously loved you for a while, I think he was showing and telling you in other ways before. Now he's just expressing it in a more concrete way. He loved you then, he loves you now. Nothing will change from his saying it aloud. His actions will still show this, and thats what matters. If one day is actions don't show it anymore, you will know what to do. But for now, just continue on and enjoy what you two have! I think slowly with time, you will be able to accept and trust his word without the uneasy feelings.

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Registered: 01-08-2011
Fri, 03-09-2012 - 12:32pm

thank you ladies!!!!

I think you are right, both of you.

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Registered: 09-12-2005
Fri, 03-09-2012 - 12:54pm
?kittery wrote:

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Registered: 01-08-2011
Fri, 03-09-2012 - 2:54pm

thank you Sireanita.

I know I will be ok.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-03-2011
Fri, 03-09-2012 - 3:54pm

Oh kittery, I know how you're feeling. Me and my AP have been having those email convos all week because of a big change in our A circumstances too. it's a struggle with emotions. hugs!

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Registered: 01-08-2011
Fri, 03-09-2012 - 5:01pm

thank you thesmallthings!

Luckily I feel better right now.

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