I don't know why I am surprised but I am.
Hi Kittery. Wow. I don't really know what to say. How did you feel when he told you? How did you respond? I hope this doesn't change the dynamics of your R if you are not happy about this, as you seem to be in a good place at the moment. Let it sink it, i'm sure it was a shock.
thank you for responding ladies!
I realize that the way it came about was not romantic but I think he is being truthful.
I agree with Titchy. I can understand the fear and doubt you have about his revelation. However, for now try to put that aside. He has obviously loved you for a while, I think he was showing and telling you in other ways before. Now he's just expressing it in a more concrete way. He loved you then, he loves you now. Nothing will change from his saying it aloud. His actions will still show this, and thats what matters. If one day is actions don't show it anymore, you will know what to do. But for now, just continue on and enjoy what you two have! I think slowly with time, you will be able to accept and trust his word without the uneasy feelings.
thank you ladies!!!!
I think you are right, both of you.
thank you Sireanita.
I know I will be ok.
Oh kittery, I know how you're feeling. Me and my AP have been having those email convos all week because of a big change in our A circumstances too. it's a struggle with emotions. hugs!
thank you thesmallthings!
Luckily I feel better right now.