AP wants back in my life

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-04-2008
AP wants back in my life
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Thu, 10-01-2009 - 5:38pm

Well where to begin.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-18-2009
Thu, 10-01-2009 - 6:45pm

So both of you were cheating on your spouses with each other and he was seeing yet another woman on top of that?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-09-2009
Fri, 10-02-2009 - 1:02am

TB, im sorry you are in this unfortunate situation. I can imagine how much confusion you are feeling right now.

Not only did he have a W and you, but ALSO another AP which he went to first after his M break up. IMO you were 3rd in line. Its insulting that you should feel torn to be with him when you werent even the original back up after his M separation. How dispicable. You are being used as the 2nd backup and i would tell him to take a hike. If you had any sense of self-respect, I wouldnt even bother getting involved again. He is a a chronic cheater and who is to say that he wont pick another AP or 2 up if you do leave your H for him. You would never feel secure.

Cut him loose and move on. Leave his sorry @ss where he is.

I wish you the best and hope you can get over him.

SB.

Que Sera Sera - Whatever will be, will be.
Que Sera Sera - Whatever will be, will be.
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Registered: 04-17-2009
Fri, 10-02-2009 - 6:57am

When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.


It's as simple as that.