TB, im sorry you are in this unfortunate situation. I can imagine how much confusion you are feeling right now.
Not only did he have a W and you, but ALSO another AP which he went to first after his M break up. IMO you were 3rd in line. Its insulting that you should feel torn to be with him when you werent even the original back up after his M separation. How dispicable. You are being used as the 2nd backup and i would tell him to take a hike. If you had any sense of self-respect, I wouldnt even bother getting involved again. He is a a chronic cheater and who is to say that he wont pick another AP or 2 up if you do leave your H for him. You would never feel secure.
Cut him loose and move on. Leave his sorry @ss where he is.
I wish you the best and hope you can get over him.
So both of you were cheating on your spouses with each other and he was seeing yet another woman on top of that?
TB, im sorry you are in this unfortunate situation. I can imagine how much confusion you are feeling right now.
Not only did he have a W and you, but ALSO another AP which he went to first after his M break up. IMO you were 3rd in line. Its insulting that you should feel torn to be with him when you werent even the original back up after his M separation. How dispicable. You are being used as the 2nd backup and i would tell him to take a hike. If you had any sense of self-respect, I wouldnt even bother getting involved again. He is a a chronic cheater and who is to say that he wont pick another AP or 2 up if you do leave your H for him. You would never feel secure.
Cut him loose and move on. Leave his sorry @ss where he is.
I wish you the best and hope you can get over him.
SB.
When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.
It's as simple as that.