AP's previous AP back in picture

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Registered: 11-06-2009
AP's previous AP back in picture
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Sat, 08-28-2010 - 6:04pm

I just posted "how many AP's is too many"


same situation, same woman.

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Registered: 04-11-2010
Sat, 08-28-2010 - 11:51pm

Hi james- welcome to MAS


Personally I couldnt handle another AP in the picture- mine or his. I guess its a personal thing. If its causing you pain- then its not working.


I think its a bit selfish personally- people deserve time and attention- not a pro rata amount!

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Registered: 03-29-2010
Sun, 08-29-2010 - 9:04am

Obviously it isn't becoming weird for her - if it was going to it already would have. Does he know about you? If he knows about you and isn't weird about it, then he likes her strictly for sex. Most men will be jealous and feel weird if they have any emotional attachment to the female. Even people with "polyamorous" relationships feel jealousy when they care about their partners but they learn to live with it.

As for you - you have an emotional attachment to her, which is why you hurt, and why you care. It's already weird for you.

It seems like this relationship isn't really giving you what you need. Have you thought about getting free of it and seeking someone else - someone single? I think you're hurting here.

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Registered: 07-07-2010
Sun, 08-29-2010 - 9:19am
Thanks for the warning Lexi.
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Registered: 05-19-2010
Sun, 08-29-2010 - 12:22pm
You have a choice to move on w/o her as you are a SM.