Are all men ?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2009
Are all men ?
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Sun, 08-23-2009 - 6:41pm

I sometime feel that all men are __________. You fill in the blank.

“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-14-2009
In reply to: galcurve
Sun, 08-23-2009 - 6:57pm

you should see a therapist if you think its because of your father. You have to let the past go and stop making excuses and blaming others for choices that you make. You father wasnt there...okay...that was the past. You need to learn to get over it.


Really end it with your AP AND husband WHILE at the same time see a therapist..................That is the first step before

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2009
In reply to: galcurve
Sun, 08-23-2009 - 10:18pm

I do not blame my father.

“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
In reply to: galcurve
Sun, 08-23-2009 - 10:44pm

"Must I change who I am to find that right person for me ?"

Do you even know who you are? No, not all men are _______.

"My dh and I are still trying to work thing out but I know I am fooling myself to think that there can be an us."

Then make a clean break. Instead of wasting time trying to fix something that is broken beyond being fixed, take the time to figure out who you are, what you want, and strive to be the person you want to become.

"I refuse to see him but I take his calls. That have to stop."

You have tried breaking up many times. If you do not even have the willpower to not take his calls and/or change phone numbers, the lack of determination, and other confused behavior, will continue to attract _______.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-28-2004
In reply to: galcurve
Mon, 08-24-2009 - 12:07am

Hi galcurve,


I understand where you are coming from as far as your father not being there and all. It's not that you blame them for your actions but what some people don't understand is that not having a father or being abused by one has a direct

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2009
In reply to: galcurve
Mon, 08-24-2009 - 6:51pm

Thank you for being so understanding. It seem a lot of the ladies here love to judge me.

“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-09-2008
In reply to: galcurve
Tue, 08-25-2009 - 6:51pm

Gal,


I've been keeping up with your posts and what you said about him continuning to call you after you say its "over" is because you don't say it with meaning.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-28-2004
In reply to: galcurve
Tue, 08-25-2009 - 11:10pm

Hi Lost,


I couldn't have said it any better. There is alot of judgement going around, and it's not cool. I try my best not to judge people because I have done things that I never thought I would do in a million years. This A being the main one.


I just want to help and be supportive of people when they are in need. Yes, sometimes certain truths need to be spoken, but there is a way people can do it without coming off judgemental. We have to think about our words and the

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-14-2008
In reply to: galcurve
Fri, 08-28-2009 - 6:30am

I dont normally post on this board but I will say that I honestly think if you went for conselling it would do you good.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-29-2009
In reply to: galcurve
Thu, 09-03-2009 - 4:52pm

You don't seem any crazier than anyone else in the human race. "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone" and I am not religious.

But for your AP - If you really want him to stop contacting you - you have the power to do that. I don't know your situation, but if you sincerely tell him to leave you alone you do have recourse - his wife, the police, what ever. No one has that much power over you

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2009
In reply to: galcurve
Thu, 09-03-2009 - 7:35pm

He finally left me alone, I literally had to scream,curse and threaten him with the police.. but it OVER ! He have not call me in 12 days !

“"Truer words were never spoken -" Ah, but true words leave hearts broken! Truth is only for the wise - Lovers ought to stick to lies”

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