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Are all men ?
| Sun, 08-23-2009 - 6:41pm |
I sometime feel that all men are __________. You fill in the blank.
| Sun, 08-23-2009 - 6:41pm |
I sometime feel that all men are __________. You fill in the blank.
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you should see a therapist if you think its because of your father. You have to let the past go and stop making excuses and blaming others for choices that you make. You father wasnt there...okay...that was the past. You need to learn to get over it.
Really end it with your AP AND husband WHILE at the same time see a therapist..................That is the first step before
I do not blame my father.
"Must I change who I am to find that right person for me ?"
Do you even know who you are? No, not all men are _______.
"My dh and I are still trying to work thing out but I know I am fooling myself to think that there can be an us."
Then make a clean break. Instead of wasting time trying to fix something that is broken beyond being fixed, take the time to figure out who you are, what you want, and strive to be the person you want to become.
"I refuse to see him but I take his calls. That have to stop."
You have tried breaking up many times. If you do not even have the willpower to not take his calls and/or change phone numbers, the lack of determination, and other confused behavior, will continue to attract _______.
Hi galcurve,
I understand where you are coming from as far as your father not being there and all. It's not that you blame them for your actions but what some people don't understand is that not having a father or being abused by one has a direct
Thank you for being so understanding. It seem a lot of the ladies here love to judge me.
Gal,
I've been keeping up with your posts and what you said about him continuning to call you after you say its "over" is because you don't say it with meaning.
Hi Lost,
I couldn't have said it any better. There is alot of judgement going around, and it's not cool. I try my best not to judge people because I have done things that I never thought I would do in a million years. This A being the main one.
I just want to help and be supportive of people when they are in need. Yes, sometimes certain truths need to be spoken, but there is a way people can do it without coming off judgemental. We have to think about our words and the
I dont normally post on this board but I will say that I honestly think if you went for conselling it would do you good.
You don't seem any crazier than anyone else in the human race. "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone" and I am not religious.
But for your AP - If you really want him to stop contacting you - you have the power to do that. I don't know your situation, but if you sincerely tell him to leave you alone you do have recourse - his wife, the police, what ever. No one has that much power over you
He finally left me alone, I literally had to scream,curse and threaten him with the police.. but it OVER ! He have not call me in 12 days !
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