Are all men bipolar?

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Are all men bipolar?
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Wed, 11-17-2010 - 12:16pm

So Thursday AP had a D-day with wife reading nearly 80 texts. He claimed he never deleted them because he like re-reading them. Ack! Dumb butt.

Friday I didn't hear much from him but I wrote him. I was hurt, sad, he said he was hurt to tell me he couldn't see me anymore.

Saturday he asked if I would meet him at night. I agreed, we were intimate and laughed and had heavy adult conversation about him being caught, what it meant for us, etc.. I left, I was happy with where I thought it was.

Sunday & Monday he didn't text at all and his emails were very straight, matter of fact, nothing sweet and caring, etc.. He said Monday "I will talk to you later in the week" From that, I took my clue.

Tuesday (yesterday) he sent me a text right when he got off work and got his phone on to see how I was and wish me a good day. As I posted in my confusion post yesterday, I didn't respond. Then I got another text asking if my boys were okay. I wrote back. We then exchanged about 20 texts, he started talking like is old self, the texts got sexual, he made comments like "the next time I see you, I'm going to ravish you" and I;m like okay this is great...BUT WEIRD. Clearly, he missed me. Then he tells me wife is home and he will talk to me soon. I tell him "delete your f-ing texts!"

Now we are here on Wednesday and I got a simple email saying he missed staring at my eyes. Ack! I know he is in hot water at home. I wish I was a fly on the wall..lol...I have to be smart and stay back but shouldnt he too!??! I'm not going to suggest meeting him, that will have to come totally at his request. So my guess is either he doesn't care about what is going on at home, he really does like how the A is making him feel or he thinks maybe this time he can be smart and safe and hide it. I'm flattered he is thinking about me and missing me but weirded out and cautious also. He has gone from A to Z and from Z to A in days.

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Wed, 11-17-2010 - 3:02pm

Well, considering I've had a number of people I've loved who have had bipolar disorder, I'd have to say no to the question in your title.

I couldn't tell you what your AP is thinking, though am sure he's going through some confusion right now.

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Wed, 11-17-2010 - 3:29pm

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Wed, 11-17-2010 - 7:34pm
Wow! Negative much? So, tell me, did you look inside this anonymous man's head and heart and can tell what he is thinking and feeling? Of course its about her also, she is involved in the relationship too and no one gets involved in an affair with someone they dont want to be with!! I think only AP can truly tell you what he is thinking and feeling. Maybe he really is done with his marriage and truly does not care about getting caught, maybe he is stupid, maybe he is just using you for sex, but you will never know until you ask.
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Wed, 11-17-2010 - 8:25pm

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Wed, 11-17-2010 - 8:49pm
iamnumberone1 wrote:

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Wed, 11-17-2010 - 9:05pm

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Wed, 11-17-2010 - 9:08pm
Why is it so unlikely? You mean to say that he is too stupid to know what he thinks and feels! Not everyone is a liar and like it or not he must really enjoy being with AP if he is willing to continue even after being caught because as you say it is his actions that matter, right? You have no idea at all why he continues the A and it's mean to tell someone that AP has bad intentions. So, please tell us why you are posting on this site. Whats your story? Do you have any experience to backup your opinions?
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Wed, 11-17-2010 - 9:11pm

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Wed, 11-17-2010 - 9:14pm

Sweetheart249 people like "iamnumberone" (or whatever her name is)

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Wed, 11-17-2010 - 9:16pm
iamnumberone1 wrote:

anotherseyes

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