Are we done.....forever?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-16-2008
Are we done.....forever?
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Fri, 09-26-2008 - 1:41pm

Just need a little input. I have had an AP for the last 6 months - we are both head over heals in love with each other and knew it the first time we met a year ago. We are both married and we work at the same company. He is a boss, not mine, but we work closely together. We have a wonderful relationship - working and personal. He has every quality that I could ever wish for in a man - respectful, kind, funny, gently, my best friend. We have both expressed our feelings about being together - for me, I would leave today if he said the words, but it is a different story for him. He is looking at everything he will lose and all the other family matters involved, which I agree is a smart thing to do, but if you deeply love somebody - does all that matter? Does that matter more than being with the person that can satisfy all of your emotional and physical needs?


Let me explain a little bit more - he works 2 hours from his home - so he is here all week and goes home on the weekends - to his home town where his wife

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-03-2007
Fri, 09-26-2008 - 2:07pm
To give your M one go before you put an end to it, AP has to be out of the scene.Period.As long as he is in the picture, you will never be able to give your M what it requires to be successful.Go complete NC and put in your best to your M.if it doesnt work out,you can D else, you wont regret leaving a M that could be saved.