Are we friends or More....?
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| Tue, 01-27-2004 - 11:35pm |
When I tell him how I feel, he says we should just be friends because he doesn't wanna hurt me in any way and he wants to keep our friendship over anything (we started out as just friends). Also, this past weekend his girlfriend was informed by some girl about him being unfaithful. That was another reason for us being “just friends.”
We are supposed to hang out on Thursday and we both understood that Thursday we were hanging out as "just friends."
Well, tonight he calls me on the way home from a basketball game. We both have Nextel and he normally calls me using the phone part when he is alone but he called me tonight using the 2-way walkie talkie part (he was with 2 friends so they all heard our conversation) and during our conversation, he asks me if I would give him a massage on Thurs. to which I responded with a maybe (I was a bit confused because today we talked about being "just friends"). He then asks me if i would give him a full body massage to which i replied the same answer. Then he says well what if I was bad to which I again replied with a maybe (I am soo confused!)
I am completely confused about my own feelings and his as well! On top of that, the mixed signals he’s sending me are just making it more complicated! I don't know how to handle it or what to even think!

I don't know everything involved in your situation, but from what you wrote, it sounds like this guy may be an egomaniac more than anything. He just showed off to his two friends what a "stud" he is by conversing with you over 2 way in that manner. How tasteless. I am no expert on men, but I have had enough male platonic friends to know that when they do this sort of thing, it is to be the envy of their guy friends at someone else's expense.
Be careful. If you think you are confused and agitated now, just wait, it could get a lot worse.
Pen
Mama