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Are you spoiled?
| Thu, 01-15-2004 - 1:22am |
Are you spoiled by your OW/MM? If so what are the special things they do for just you when you are together with them?
One time after we finished making love in the afternoon my MW fell asleep, so I then slipped out of her arms and I made and lunch for the two of us.
We enjoy eating at a local Japanese Steak house in a town we go visit often when we can get away. I have been learning to cook the dinner we always order just for her, I still don’t have all the smooth moves down they do but I cook a pretty good meal for a MM.

I take my MM a cappucino when we meet, I also give him special back rubs.
Just today i started the water in the whirpool for him to relax after a rough night at work, of course i joined him.
There are things i would like to do but can't so that no red flags are raised.That goes with being involved in an A though so you learn to find things that you can do for each other to show that you care.
I am sure that your MW enjoys the things that you do for her.
It is nice to see a man that does special things for his MW
SB
Seeburg
MM has been going to cook for me a couple of times... the first time he was going to do this however was the first time that we had ever been together physically... and I was so nervous that I wouldn't have been able to eat a thing.
The second was when we spent pretty much the day together at my place... but it was the day before I do the grocery shopping and there was barely anything in the house to cook... so we instead went and bought lunch.
I think it's so sweet when he talks of making me lunch... as DH can not cook and the most I get is soup out of a can.
As for me... I do little things... like rub his shoulders before or after being with him... it's really difficult to do the special things when it's all a secret.
Sounds like your MW is a lucky lady partnr.
Sweet
Co-Community Leader My
She is very supportive and is a great partner for me in which I feel we complement each other in what we each of us bring to the table in this A of ours. The song Cryin' is where my screen name comes from since we are each others "Partner In Crime" in this little A we both enjoy.
We talk often and she keeps me on track of her work schedule vs. mine so we can spend as much time together as we can.
We enjoy our time together and the A is not just about making love which I have to say is the best for me in my 44 years and I have had several partners that were very good.
I do care very much about her "O" far more than her husband does she tells me but we also enjoy doing other things together like just talking or listening to music, last night I was planning a road trip for the two of us so we can have lunch out of town but she said she wants to come to my place and us just cuddle and talk. What more could any man ask for than a woman that longs to be held in your arms?
I enjoy the board here and reading all the posts it is good to find other people who are involved like myself in an A to get ideas from and to share the ups and downs.
PNC
looks like you love to pamper your mw. my mm is a sweet guy too - but he is yet to pamper me. mostly due to our scheduling conficts. i like to see more posts from men like you who seem to refresh this board somehow.
lf
Hi PNC,
Reading your post... I found that yes... I could have written a lot of it.
Sweet
Co-Community Leader My
Oh.....also, I have long fingernails and his W bites hers.....so I scratch his back and run my fingers threw his hair....which he LOVES!!!!!!