Are you still in love with H?
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Are you still in love with H?
| Fri, 11-28-2003 - 9:09pm |
This question is not meant to be maliscious or saracastic in any way. I genuinely want to know the answer to this: I'm really curious as to how many people on this board are still in love with their husbands and have no intention of ever leaving? I'm not thinking of the friendly, fondness kind of love, but the kind of love you had when you were first married. If you are still in love like that, what do you think brought you into having an affair?
(I'm asking because I'm wondering how I got to the point of thinking about another man when I love my husband with all my heart)
Thanks in advance for your input!

Hope this helps!
Pony
I honestly don't know -- yes, I love him, and no, I'll never leave him. Am I completely, psychotically in love with him? No. I don't know exactly what love is supposed to be anymore (or what the 'norm' is -- if there is a norm). I've thought about this a lot (and what exactly brought me to the point of having an A). I still haven't figured it all out!
Hope you have better luck!
Charlotte
I look at some of my friends and their relationships and I realize how lucky I am cuz he is such a good man. And he loves me dearly.
The reason I am in an A is because of the sex. My mm and I got together because we wanted to have some uninhibited, playful, experimental sex that neither of us could with our spouses. Of course, as with half the people on this board, feelings weren't supposed to get involved but they did. SO we have strong feelings for each other and mind blowing sex. That is the reason I am in an A.
Also, I enjoy the butterfly feelings I get when I see him..and the attention he gives me.
After they leave for college.......he's launched.
Edited 3/10/2004 4:50 pm ET ET by geek_chic
Hi dazed,
I do still love my DH... my love for him has certainly changed though... I'm no longer "IN" love with him... but I've found that I have a deep love for him and that and my children certainly keep me grounded and not about to go anywhere.
At the same time... I realised that I was beginning to love MM... I'm still not quite sure of that love... I don't feel I can be "IN" love with him either... when I don't really know this man as a whole...
Sweet
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