Arguments then Making up??
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| Tue, 06-08-2010 - 3:38pm |
So we had a "fight" last Friday and are "done" or "over it", we've decided we are NOT "friends" or I decided it, it wasn't very pretty to say the least, and when we passed each other after the fact, if tension, vibes and attitude could kill we would BOTH be dead!
So I've not spoken to him nor has he spoken to me unless it is regarding work but just a sec ago I am coming out of the bathroom and notice him standing at the "work station" and his eyes are so following me; he doesn't move his head yet tries to sneak a peak with only his eyes.....then right after that we were approaching each other in the hall and he had this little smirk or smile or whatever the heck it was on his face as he again, tried to "sneak a peak" at me!?!??!
While I want to "make up" I totally don't want to make up, I miss him, yet I so don't miss him. We've had one good fight similar before (a year ago to date almost) but it was much worse then this one.
What do you gals think he is "thinking" by his behavior, do you think he would like to make up or no?
Arghhhh, he frustrates me to no END.

Yeah, his actions say he wants to make up. I would wait for him to approach you, I think. It sounds like he's caving already. :)
However, your saying you miss him, but you don't, you want to make up, but you don't, might mean this R is coming to an end for you? Think about it a little harder, before actually making up. Maybe it's time for you to move away from this and move on? Only you know for sure the answer to that one!
You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
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AP and I have lots of fights,basically him getting furious when H and I go out together and I dress up nice ! AP is a neighbor unfortunately.Even if its a visit to the church ,AP makes a big deal out of it.Hello! we are not young enough to have sex at the back seat of car anymore!!lol!! We make up quickly ;)
Kiss and make-up ! Life is too short to stay sad and unhappy.
I agree with lexi.
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I say this to myself everyday...He doesn't really belong to you...why are you doing this? Let it go and find a healthier relationship, especially if you're single. And if you're married like me - then you're really messing up (like me) potentially hurting 2 families with this nonsense....so much for LOVE...if its not lived out in a healhty way maybe its all just bs...painful, and not worth it. Seriously...I'm talking to myself...
Don't go back..Focus on YOU...get a healthy mindset - you deserve true happiness.