AwKWaRd!!!!

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AwKWaRd!!!!
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Tue, 11-02-2010 - 11:10am

....found out by viewing facebook last night that the faraway

when one does not love too much, one does not love enough --blaise pascal

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Registered: 10-08-2010
Tue, 11-02-2010 - 11:29am

I have decided that FB is just EVIL!!!!

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Tue, 11-02-2010 - 11:52am
i'm really not in pain. i think im just stunned,. and i fel like vomitting he and i r both married. he knows i acess her FB page from time to time, and of course i had to go looking!!!! i may not even bring it up to him. just more fodder for when i can break things off with him, i will have more ammunition to be stronger. or maybe it,s just yet another sign that this guy is NOT a good match for me. oh dear!!!!!!!! thanks for your reply, i do appreciate it.
when one does not love too much, one does not love enough --blaise pascal
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Registered: 10-08-2010
Tue, 11-02-2010 - 12:07pm

I know that stunned, gonna throw up feeling,

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Tue, 11-02-2010 - 1:51pm

I'm sorry Marie. I know I would be stunned as well. I'm not sure if we should be surprised but it means he didn't take the time out to pick something unique out for you and that would be what got me most. If you want to call him on it then go ahead but if by doing so its only going to aggravate you further then I wouldn't bother.

 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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Tue, 11-02-2010 - 5:08pm
the long distance friend gave his wife the RiNg he offered to me as a way to patch stuff up. the local AP, he infers that stuff s just icky with his wife and then i see her FB profile and it is the two of them dressed up as romeo and juliet this past weekend. oi vey!! i do not know why i do this to myself. or rather, why would ap#2 not share the truth with me at all? oh dear. i am feeling weak again. and i know i do not need this needless unimportant stuff. i should just let it all gooooo and be satisfied with the man i have. but maybe facebook is a savings grace too. a gentle reminder to us that we should be satisfied and grateful for what we do have. oh dear (sigh). thanks for your insight. i do appreciate it.
when one does not love too much, one does not love enough --blaise pascal
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Tue, 11-02-2010 - 5:16pm
PR: i don't think i'm going to say anything. the webs we weave are complicated enough. and he does have a wife, and it is her BD month, and any decent husband would totally send a babule from tiffany's. i do understand that. and they do have a family, a life, a baby anda child together. he and i have now --nothing but miles between us and some hot memories. the whole thing hurts, right? waaahhhh.... but what is interesting is that i think he didn't take the time to pick out something unique for her. the suggested retailer was my ideaer in oct. it was my ultimatum, and i turned it down. thank goodness i did. i would hate knowing that both her and i were wearing the same thing. that just seems realy odd. although now i wonder if his ego is just so great that he sort of enjoys the idea of his ladies wearing the same piece of jewery, sort of an ownership thing. OH DEar!!!!
when one does not love too much, one does not love enough --blaise pascal
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Wed, 11-03-2010 - 8:14am

Hey, guys are clueless and lazy about jewelery.

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Registered: 06-06-2010
Wed, 11-03-2010 - 10:09am

I think you should not take it personal...that's men for you! We are linear thinker, especially

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Registered: 09-05-2010
Wed, 11-03-2010 - 10:50am

so

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Registered: 10-27-2010
Wed, 11-03-2010 - 11:17am

I can understand why you feel that way, but ITA with Lexi. Guys just don't think in the same way as we do, and I'm positive his W would feel worse than you do if she knew he'd originally wanted to give it to you!

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