Awwww

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Awwww
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Fri, 05-07-2004 - 11:00am
My OM surprised me with a very short, but very sweet message last night. I even got emotional when I read it. This is the message:

"I can't wait to see you again - I miss the great times we have. Eating with you, making love to you, cuddling up on my couch, or making out in my car. I love every bit of it, just like I love every bit of you. I love you M****."

We're supposed to see each other this afternoon... can't wait! =)

Have a good weekend, everyone!


Edited 5/7/2004 11:17 am ET ET by crazy4bk

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In reply to: crazy4bk
Fri, 05-07-2004 - 11:07am
Lucky you!!! He seems like a real sweetie! Have a great afternoon!!
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In reply to: crazy4bk
Fri, 05-07-2004 - 11:08am
I don't know if you wanted to make me feel bad, but I want to tell you you did succeed in it. Anyway, I am glad for you and MM. Sounds like a keeper. Take Care.
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In reply to: crazy4bk
Fri, 05-07-2004 - 11:30am
julietsfate, why would I want to make you feel bad? I know you're having problems with your MM, or xMM, whatever the case may be, and even though I'm sorry for the way he's made you feel, it has nothing to do with me, and it doesn't mean I shouldn't feel good and happy about the R I have with my OM.

My OM hardly ever does anything like what he did last night. In fact, I even posted about it here, that he's only sweet to me when we're together and the rest of the time I hardly hear from him.

I talk to no one about my A, so this message board is the only place where I can discuss anything related to it.

Please don't rain on my parade.

Good luck and happiness to you.

crazy4bk

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In reply to: crazy4bk
Fri, 05-07-2004 - 11:36am
why shouldn't I, I have been done that before - rained on my parade. Maybe not by you...

Anyway, you shouldn't feel bad about my post, its the mood i am in today. Please feel free to hit the ignore button on me. Its best for both of us.

Good Luck with your lunch appointment.

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Registered: 05-04-2004
In reply to: crazy4bk
Fri, 05-07-2004 - 11:55am
julietsfate,

I'm sorry you've come across insensitive people, but you shouldn't attack or punish others for something they didn't do.

I won't put you on ignore because I'm not like that. Ignoring you isn't going to make things better for you. You need support and understanding, and that's why we're here. To give and receive the support we need.

Thank you for your positive wishes.

crazy4bk

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Registered: 09-16-2003
In reply to: crazy4bk
Fri, 05-07-2004 - 12:11pm
hi there,

I don't have the energy to tell you why i do certain thing i do, so i am ignoring you now. BTW, crazy, i have been here long time and people here know me very well and respect me for who i am, so i don't have to explain myself to this board anymore than i already have.

Good Luck!


Edited 5/7/2004 12:12 pm ET ET by julietsfate

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In reply to: crazy4bk
Fri, 05-07-2004 - 12:19pm
Hi... I am a real "old timer" here and just lurk now and then...(I should post more)...

I just wanted to let you know that I am happy for you for the message you received from your MM.... Those sweet things are always so nice to hear; esp if it is out of character for him... relish it, savor it, shout it from the mountain top!

I hope you had or will have a great time... don't forget to tell him how much you appreciated and *need* those kinds of messages....positive reinforcement works!

Enjoy!

Forty

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Registered: 03-23-2004
In reply to: crazy4bk
Fri, 05-07-2004 - 12:23pm
I am sooooooooo happy for you...i would give anything to

receive a message like that today!!

It would surely lift my spirits......Have a great time!!

Bunny.

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Registered: 05-04-2004
In reply to: crazy4bk
Fri, 05-07-2004 - 3:13pm
Thank you so much forty and bunny. I wish I still felt as good as I did when I posted it. I have no idea why juliet had to attack me the way she did. All I'm doing is trying to be friendly. I didn't attack her at all, or said anything negative about her or towards her. I wish I had listened to her and ignored her. She's not very good at making newcomers feel welcomed...

Anyway, I guess there's no point in letting some stranger ruin my day. I want to be in a good mood when I see my baby later =) I'll definitely let him know how much his message meant to me. Hopefully he'll do it more often =)

You all have a great afternoon!


Edited 5/7/2004 3:18 pm ET ET by crazy4bk

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Registered: 03-30-2004
In reply to: crazy4bk
Fri, 05-07-2004 - 3:20pm
hi crazy -- "don't worry, be happy"!! you are entitled to your warm, fuzzy feelings for OM. go, relax, enjoy. let us know how the evening went. we love good news on the board.

and no worries with juliet. some days, some of us are really down and jules is having one of those weeks. i don't feel like she was attacking you, honey, more like a bah humbug comment.

just go have fun with your guy!!

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