Baby blues

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Registered: 04-08-2007
Baby blues
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Sun, 02-22-2009 - 11:23pm

Two weeks ago, I gave birth to a baby boy, the fruit of very complicated relationships that involved way too many people. His daddy was with me the whole time where I was the least dignified. Luckily the labour was only about 6 hours (and consider this is my first).


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Registered: 07-24-2005
In reply to: zooya
Mon, 02-23-2009 - 2:45am

Congratulations, Zooya on the birth of your son.


I never had children, but certainly witnessed the postpartum blues experienced by a few of


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Registered: 05-20-2007
In reply to: zooya
Mon, 02-23-2009 - 2:58am




Hi Zooya,


I am hoping that you have your own family around for support with your new baby. If


you don't, I hope they can make arrangements to be with you at this time. Whether


"dad" can be there or not, the support of your mom or siblings will be most beneficial


to you so you can rest and recouperate. Please let us know that you do you have


family support with your beautiful new little boy, we know you need it. :)










iVillage Member
Registered: 01-12-2009
In reply to: zooya
Mon, 02-23-2009 - 8:01am

Zooya...CONGRATS!

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-12-2007
In reply to: zooya
Mon, 02-23-2009 - 12:03pm

You will be okay. I was depressed after my third child. I know your situation might not be ideal in your mind, but do the best with the cards you were dealt. You have that bundle of love that nobody can take from you, and you know that in his eyes you are first. Just make sure you always make him first. Do what is best for him. You will be just find. Lots of kisses and hugs from a certain little one should do the trick. Congrats....

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2008
In reply to: zooya
Mon, 02-23-2009 - 12:36pm

congratulations!

i dont know your story but believe that you have a baby with AP who seems to have gone back to W ( i am assuming the story,forgive me if i am wrong).
I dont have any kids but i do believe that they are a gift of God.

Hugs to you and to your new baby.

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Registered: 08-19-2008
In reply to: zooya
Wed, 02-25-2009 - 11:15pm

Zooya,

Congratulations on the delivery of a healthy Baby Boy!

The last time you were on here you said he (your AP) got a D or his W threw him out. So, why isn't he with you now? Who did he move in with this time?

Anyway, all that screwed-up stuff aside, you now have a very special person in your life that's totally dependent upon you to survive and require a good father figure. May be a good time to face reality and get out of the A fog. If your AP can't be the responsible man he should be, then what's the use? It's hard to have a baby and be left alone to do everything. You need to get someone (mother, sister, good FF) to come help you out for a little while.

Good luck.

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Registered: 04-08-2007
In reply to: zooya
Thu, 02-26-2009 - 9:37am

Hi you all, thanks for the kind words. I am loving every moments.

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Registered: 08-31-2003
In reply to: zooya
Thu, 02-26-2009 - 10:29am

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Edited 8/13/2009 2:33 pm ET by opal_fire
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Registered: 12-05-2004
In reply to: zooya
Thu, 02-26-2009 - 8:08pm

ooh dear woman...name your baby what you want to name him. If you are even projecting the sloppy seconds feeling thing on your child's name it does him a diservice. YOUR BABY DESERVES not to have RESENTMENT tied to him. You are obligated to NOT do that.


Name your child what YOU want him to be called. This is for LIFE. You are this baby's mother regardless of how you feel about your love life right

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Registered: 02-23-2004
In reply to: zooya
Fri, 02-27-2009 - 10:42am

Hey Zoo!

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