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Registered: 06-13-2006
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Mon, 03-09-2009 - 5:20am

For those of you that remember me, I was just checking in with a status update. (caught in MM's home by school skipping daughter....)


That was mid-January. He cut all contact; for 3 days. It is now mid-March and we are right back to where we left off; jut more careful, & not in either home.


All of our feelings are out on the table with one another. I think we are both fairly comfortable with the fact we will not be out of one another's lives any time soon. We have been talking every day since 3 days after D-day. We see each other at least once, if not twice a week.


I do not know if there is an exclusive future for us. I don't think about that much at all. We are still with our spouses, though that topic comes up quite frequently with no promises made, no expectations held of each other.


When D-day happened, I really thought my heart was being ripped out of my chest. MM told me he felt as if his was ripped out twice: once for his W and once for me. I didn't envy him of that at all.


I am still confused time from time about why any of this ever happened: why we met, became friends, became intimate, got busted, and went right back to old hat.


I am going on a solo vacation at the end of the month, something I booked within a week of D-day happening. Am looking forward to time away from H and MM.

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Registered: 12-18-2008
In reply to: gal_anonymous1
Mon, 03-09-2009 - 7:11am

Hey Gal, thanks for update. Glad things are back on even keel with AP. You are lucky. The time I got busted, AP at the time totally threw me under the bus. H filed for D and I lost my job also. :( Like I said your AP is a keeper!

Have fun on your trip. I did same kind of thing and that's how I met AP #2!

-jana

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Registered: 06-13-2006
In reply to: gal_anonymous1
Mon, 03-09-2009 - 7:21am

Jana,


Thanks, and yes, AP is a keeper. He did not throw me under the bus at all. He actually protected my identity tho his W pressed him for the info~~he refused to give it to her. He also assumed full responsibility for what happened that day, tho I was the one to ask if I could come over. Even now if I say I feel responsible for

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Registered: 12-19-2008
In reply to: gal_anonymous1
Mon, 03-09-2009 - 9:11pm

Good to hear from

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Registered: 06-13-2006
In reply to: gal_anonymous1
Tue, 03-10-2009 - 10:55am

Shoulda...


Thanks, deff looking forward to some quality "me" time. I'm heading to West Palm Beach and Key West for a week :) and I live in the Midwest, so the warm weather will be so appreciated.


AP and I, I guess, are status quo. He tells me he is in no way ready for this to be over, and he is the one that brought up the