Back Again

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-20-2011
Back Again
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Thu, 03-28-2013 - 8:37pm

Hello all, I am back again - probably should have never left!

Things with my AP are just as confusing as ever, will that ever change.  We actually saw one another this week for about 30 minutes, there was no physical contact whatsoever.  He had a cold and he told me the day after that he did want to get close and give me what he has.  Once again I find my jumbled thoughts which turn into semi-coherent rambling here.

We have stayed in daily contact for atleast 3 years some days its like we are getting closer but when he has the oppotunuty for even the slighest (they have been very few and far between) he does not follow through.  

Still confused and should let go but cant...

Community Leader
Registered: 09-21-2007
In reply to: bsbsker
Fri, 03-29-2013 - 3:40pm

Hi!

I'm sorry you are so confused.  A's just are not cut and dry like a normal relationship.  Some days, I am confused, others, things are smooth as silk. 

Why is it that you are confused?  If you don't mind, what is the nature of your A...PA, EA, or both? 

 

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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-20-2011
In reply to: bsbsker
Tue, 04-02-2013 - 8:15pm

We are in a EA that we discuss physical things often.   He lives about 2 hours away from me and we do not see other.   A few weeks ago we had the opportunity to see one another, he talked about getting physical.  He blew that opportunity.  A few days later we had another opportunity, he came through but getting physical was not an option then,

Community Leader
Registered: 09-21-2007
Thu, 04-04-2013 - 9:28am

That would be a little confusing.  Why did he blow it the first time? 

 

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