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Back again & its complicated
| Thu, 07-08-2010 - 5:54pm |
Its been 5 years since ive been in this situation.
| Thu, 07-08-2010 - 5:54pm |
Its been 5 years since ive been in this situation.
Trust me: I've been where you are, and you can't fake it with your spouse.
anotherseyes
Welcome to MAS lasvegasdiva!
Another eyes has a point about staying for the kids. I know a couple where the H wanted to leave for years, but "stayed for the kids". When the youngest was in college, he finally left, and his kids held it against him for awhile that "their whole world was a lie", meaning that he was only pretending to be happy with his home life, and they thought everyone was truly happy - so their whole life was a lie in their minds. Kids seem to turn anything you do against you LOL. Of course they can also use a divorce "ruining their life" against their parents, so we really can't always win.
At least you've found us here and just being able to talk about your A and your feelings helps tremendously! Looking forward to your posts. :-)
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