Back again & its complicated

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Registered: 05-15-2008
Back again & its complicated
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Thu, 07-08-2010 - 5:54pm

Its been 5 years since ive been in this situation.

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Registered: 05-03-2010
Thu, 07-08-2010 - 11:29pm

Trust me: I've been where you are, and you can't fake it with your spouse.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 03-29-2010
Fri, 07-09-2010 - 8:05am

Welcome to MAS lasvegasdiva!

Another eyes has a point about staying for the kids. I know a couple where the H wanted to leave for years, but "stayed for the kids". When the youngest was in college, he finally left, and his kids held it against him for awhile that "their whole world was a lie", meaning that he was only pretending to be happy with his home life, and they thought everyone was truly happy - so their whole life was a lie in their minds. Kids seem to turn anything you do against you LOL. Of course they can also use a divorce "ruining their life" against their parents, so we really can't always win.

At least you've found us here and just being able to talk about your A and your feelings helps tremendously! Looking forward to your posts. :-)

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