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| Mon, 04-13-2009 - 1:09pm |
I am so sick of this roller coaster ride, but I do believe it’s “over” finally. Any input would be appreciated.
| Mon, 04-13-2009 - 1:09pm |
I am so sick of this roller coaster ride, but I do believe it’s “over” finally. Any input would be appreciated.
If you don't want it to be over, I don't think it's over, (I think he will calm down and "heat up" again) but be prepared for the ups and downs, and him running hot and cold, over and over and over. Until you want to get off, it's like a combo merry-go-round/roller coaster. No matter how many "good talks" and times you will feel so close, there will probably be the "pull away" phase with the cold shoulder not long after. Not every A has this, but since he's set this pattern, I think yours will have that pattern from now on.
Good luck with what you decide to do, and you can always come here to get a little "tea and sympathy" when your A is in the "downhill, cold shoulder" phase.
Some would say that I fell from grace... but I didn't.
You've got a lot of choices. I
Love the lyrics from Kate Perry's song:
Someone call the doctor
Got a case of a love bi-polar
Btrue, I love those lyrics.
Anotherday, I think Lexi said it best, it isn't over until you truly want it to be. If you don't want it to be, then yes the roller coaster will continue with the extreme highs and lows we come to expect from Affairland.
Hang on tight. I too am sure he will be back.
lol, I was just thinking the same thing when I was listening to that song.
Lets say I DO want it to continue, and I don't want it to end. how do I go about that? I've never been in an A before and this is so new to me. Like I've mentioned, we have not spoken to each other or seen each other all day.
Btw, thank you so much for your advice.