back here again after 2 years - had baby

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-01-2008
back here again after 2 years - had baby
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Thu, 09-10-2009 - 10:43pm

hello all - looks like most of you are new - i notice a few of you - benska, cubbies, and a few others. I used to post here frequently 2 years ago. here is a shortened version of my story.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-12-2009
Fri, 09-11-2009 - 3:58pm

Hi Secret.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-04-2009
Sat, 09-12-2009 - 1:47pm

Hi Secret,

We never met but I just saw your post.
I assume that the baby is not the child of the xAP?
What did he do when you found out you were pregnant again?
Was he mad? Sad?

hugs,
Htgo

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-09-2008
Sat, 09-12-2009 - 3:07pm

Secret,


CONGRATZ on the baby!!! =)


I have to ask too... how do you know its not xAP's baby?

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-01-2008
Sat, 09-12-2009 - 9:50pm

hi all


thanks for all your replys.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-04-2009
Sun, 09-13-2009 - 4:56am

Hi Secret,

Yes I agree with you, that would have been too weird,
having sex with AP while you are carrying someone else's baby.
What did you tell him when he wanted to have sex ?
Did you push him away, did you say something friendly but with a very
determined voice? Was he mad when you didn't want to do anything physical, or did he understand the reason why?

Hugs
Htgo

p.s. was the pregnancy planned?
p.s. 2: I hope I am not asking too many questions ;-)




Edited 9/13/2009 4:59 am ET by how_to_get_out
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-04-2009
Mon, 09-14-2009 - 8:19am

Hey secret,

I tried to send you an email but you opted not to use email.
Would you like to email me?

htgo