Back on the roller coaster? Maybe.
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Back on the roller coaster? Maybe.
| Sun, 09-14-2008 - 8:17am |
For a bit, been nervous about posting, yep, I am back on the roller coaster, I think.
| Sun, 09-14-2008 - 8:17am |
For a bit, been nervous about posting, yep, I am back on the roller coaster, I think.
" I don't need him to be happy, he is the icing on the cake of my own happiness. "
Awww! That's a nice way to put it.
Hope it goes better for you this time - sounds as if you guys really need to make sure you communicate... perhaps over coffee and some slices of the most delicious cake (with icing)?
D x
Hi Green.
If you are interested in any advice, this is what a wise woman told me when I was in my situation.
Deal with one problem at a time.
That meant, decide about the M and either fix it or leave it. (Sounds like you want to leave it.)
Then deal with whether you want to be with AP or not. (I'd want to know what "working on leaving the M" is all about. If his W has someone else, what is there to work on?
I do worry about your greeneyes, and I sincerely hope you find the strenght you need to leave your H. For YOU. And IF you get back with AP, do it for YOU, not for HIM. Remember it´s all about YOU. Don´t feel guilt for being selfish. You can´t move on without being selfish.
Stay strong, I´m thinking of you...
(((hugs)))