Back...with a small update

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Registered: 05-17-2003
Back...with a small update
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Tue, 08-03-2010 - 2:15pm

Hi all,


Well, I just wanted to post a small update....of the A kind. AP has continued to be a rock for me, and has made me feel very happy and content.

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Registered: 03-26-2010
Tue, 08-03-2010 - 11:17pm
Hi, Benska!
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Registered: 03-29-2010
Wed, 08-04-2010 - 7:30am

It is nice to hear a good post from you Benska. And I'm especially happy about the "no alcohol" part.

One thing I can never understand when I read a post like yours is how an AP can spend days with his OW (or OM). How do they get away with that? Is his wife out of town? Even when my H was out of town I didn't do sleepovers because I do have grown kids who might be looking for me. Grown kids have a tendency to have keys to the old homestead so it would look weird if they were looking for me and stayed late waiting for me.

Anyway, my wondering aside, I am glad that you're happy and leaving the alcohol alone!

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Registered: 12-31-2007
Wed, 08-04-2010 - 8:49am
Yes, I've often wondered about how people get spend all this time together. The most we've ever gotten was 3 hours and that was pushing it. We're both busy people with work, family, hobbies and social activities. Neither of us can disappear for that long...but it would be amazing!!
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Registered: 05-17-2003
Wed, 08-04-2010 - 2:49pm

Thanks lexi,


I feel pretty good about the no alcohol as well!

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Registered: 03-26-2010
Wed, 08-04-2010 - 5:20pm

Ooh, that reminds me, I had wanted to mention a book to you that I loved!