Bad breakup time??

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Registered: 10-29-2004
Bad breakup time??
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Tue, 02-10-2009 - 9:58am

It hasn't been very long since I've posted on here.

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Registered: 02-05-2009
Thu, 02-12-2009 - 1:28pm

Blaming your attitude for why he didn't 'talk' to you... what an immature jerk. Yup, just get rid of him, Blond :) and tell him to hit the pavement and forget V-day, you have better things to do than hang out w/someone who makes you feel bad about yourself!!

hugs and hang in there! keep us posted :)

trixie xo

Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it is about learning to
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Registered: 10-29-2004
Thu, 02-12-2009 - 2:04pm

Thank you!!

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Registered: 11-28-2007
Thu, 02-12-2009 - 2:30pm

Worlds biggest softie here honey - ask anyone.

lightning in my heart

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Registered: 08-02-2000
Thu, 02-12-2009 - 4:00pm

This guy sounds like a real jerk. It can be said that beneath every "joke" there's a little bit of truth. Not that I believe for one moment that he was, in fact, joking.

I can't smash home enough to you that now is the best time to end it. If you wait until after VD, you may just get sucked in again and it will be that much harder the next time. YOu don't need this guy. He's using you.

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Registered: 12-05-2004
Thu, 02-12-2009 - 6:35pm

Blond, the better question should be 'are you a softie or desperate doormat or hate to be alone".


Ya know those confident women who would never be in a relationship like this? Emulate them.


Time to be wise,


Lizzie

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Registered: 10-29-2004
Fri, 02-13-2009 - 9:07am

Well I don't think I'm afraid to be alone so I'll either go with the doormat or softie one.

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Registered: 10-29-2004
Fri, 02-13-2009 - 1:53pm

Well crap!!

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Registered: 12-05-2004
Fri, 02-13-2009 - 6:58pm

sounds like a really sick relationship. He has zero boundaries and is quite cruel...kinda smacks of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (but I am not therapist...google it and ask yourself some questions) and you seem really immature regarding the fairtale-ness of it all, submissive,

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Registered: 08-02-2000
Fri, 02-13-2009 - 7:37pm

It is "over" if you say it is, flowers or not. He bought you flowers manipulatively, IMHO. To get in your good graces. Big deal. I say take the flowers and drop them off somewhere where someone might actually get a good feeling from seeing them. Like a nursing home. You don't need his stupid vain attempt to get back in your pants.

Or throw them away. Your call.

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Registered: 12-06-2007
Fri, 02-13-2009 - 8:00pm

What a fantastic suggestion sillyme!