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Bad Timing
| Sat, 05-15-2004 - 12:02am |
I'm new to this board, so bear with me...
I am a MW. I can't say anything so bad about H other than we have our ups and downs as I suppose is normal in any M. Three years ago I met someone thru a mutual friend - instant attraction, but I was happily married with kids - didn't think anything of it. Over the next couple of months, our paths seemed to cross and we'd bump into each other. One day I was with our mutual friend and we ran into him, so we had lunch, nice conversation, flirting... From that day on - the compatability and the chemistry was too much to ignore. We started talking on the phone, seeing each other, flirting, kissed, and need I tell you more?...So here I am 3 yrs later - I can't seem to get him out of my mind, can't stop this thing we have. I've distanced myself as much as I could, but I always end up back with him. BTW, he's divorced and single at the time, so it puzzles me why he sticks around.
I'm confused. How did I get caught up in an EMA when I wasn't even looking? And why can't I get out? I hate to say this, but sometimes I think he's my destiny. Is it so, is it just bad timing?
I am a MW. I can't say anything so bad about H other than we have our ups and downs as I suppose is normal in any M. Three years ago I met someone thru a mutual friend - instant attraction, but I was happily married with kids - didn't think anything of it. Over the next couple of months, our paths seemed to cross and we'd bump into each other. One day I was with our mutual friend and we ran into him, so we had lunch, nice conversation, flirting... From that day on - the compatability and the chemistry was too much to ignore. We started talking on the phone, seeing each other, flirting, kissed, and need I tell you more?...So here I am 3 yrs later - I can't seem to get him out of my mind, can't stop this thing we have. I've distanced myself as much as I could, but I always end up back with him. BTW, he's divorced and single at the time, so it puzzles me why he sticks around.
I'm confused. How did I get caught up in an EMA when I wasn't even looking? And why can't I get out? I hate to say this, but sometimes I think he's my destiny. Is it so, is it just bad timing?

For me, it got to the point where ending it with him was not an option. You will get to a point where living somewhere in between two lives is too difficult and you will decide which way to go. I know I got there at the beginning of this year, have made a decision about my life and marriage, and this is actually the happiest I have been in those 3 years. Sometimes making a decision-even at the risk of making the wrong one-is better than no decision at all.
Good luck!