Bah Humbug Rant

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2007
Bah Humbug Rant
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Tue, 12-16-2008 - 1:52am




Dear AP's Wife -


Please keep your husband reined in and fix whatever his problem is. If you knew about me, you would be devestated. I do know about you, although I would prefer not to know as much as I do. Something is apparently wrong with your marriage that you are completely oblivious to and your husband has chosen to make my life an emotional hell. The irony being, I would like to be with him and I know about you, and it is unjust to both of us. He is too afraid of hurting you or leaving you, but it is apparenlty OK for him

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-24-2008
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 7:53am

Perhaps you should go back through that post, and reread what you have written.

That was the most selfish thing that I have seen posted on this board thus far. You are blaming his W because of the pain you feel when HER H treats you like crap. Do you see just how twisted that thinking is? I mean ANY pain that you feel from your R w/ her H is your fault, because you choose to stay and put up w/ it. Meanwhile she is home cooking, cleaning, changing diapers, and being the best W that she knows how to be, and you blast her because sleeping w/ HER H is causing YOU grief.

Is it me? Where do these people come from? You need to know your place, as w/ all of us......the bottom rung of the ladder. If your sick of the way an A effects your life then get out, but don't play the victim on here, because we all know better.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-15-2007
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 11:26am

Please keep your husband reined in and fix whatever his problem is.


I'm sorry but no one can fix someone else.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2007
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 11:27am

What a lovely letter! I, however, think that it's a lil too long and suggest a lil more condensed version:


'The W! Move over, you b@tch! Take your hands off mah man! Get out of my way! Curl up in a ball and disappear!'


How do you like that? I think it's more to the point and reflects much better what you Really wanted to say. Right?

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2007
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 8:15pm



I do like your point, but, no, my point is that if the marriage that she would like to believe is all fairy tale and roses weren't so broken, then her H would not be looking for comfort from me. Fix your marriage, both parties, so I don't have to be involved.


iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2007
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 8:20pm



Pardon me....I do not
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 9:40pm

Would just like to point out to you, survivor,


iVillage Member
Registered: 04-11-2005
Wed, 12-17-2008 - 1:58am

Hey Survivor, I really wish I could

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2007
Wed, 12-17-2008 - 10:09am

Oh, who cares? Have you heard

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-23-2005
Wed, 12-17-2008 - 10:58am

Fix your marriage, both parties, so I don't have to be involved.


Why would you have to be involved?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-12-2008
Wed, 12-17-2008 - 5:51pm
AMEN!

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