Bah Humbug Rant
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Bah Humbug Rant
| Tue, 12-16-2008 - 1:52am |
Dear AP's Wife -
Please keep your husband reined in and fix whatever his problem is. If you knew about me, you would be devestated. I do know about you, although I would prefer not to know as much as I do. Something is apparently wrong with your marriage that you are completely oblivious to and your husband has chosen to make my life an emotional hell. The irony being, I would like to be with him and I know about you, and it is unjust to both of us. He is too afraid of hurting you or leaving you, but it is apparenlty OK for him

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"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
>>>"Yet you then say she's bashing her AP's spouse? Aren't we all in affairs which are by their very nature, bashing spouses? "<<<
Well then, since you've had that enlightenment, use that reason to stop bashing your AP's W anymore, and get out of your A.
FYI? I was the one who was M (now D) and my AP was single and D (that's why I was "not" bashing anyone's W). I may have been bashing my exH by having an A while we were still M, but it has nothing to do with how "he" wasn't fixing "our" problem. I was the straying type (I guess) and therefore, my problem alone to atone. And, I wouldn't want him bashed by other people on a public message board.
"People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within."
- Ramona L. Anderson
then again memorysong..all this may exist in his world but not his w's..she may be clueless..maybe her AP truly does feel this way about his "W" but, is afraid to tell her...you gotta come out the box and look at all 8 sides of it...
i wouldn't know..my ap never talks about his W..and i mean never...has never said a BAD thing about her, her looks, never complained about her nothing...he just has said that she loves him very much, and it's very hard for him to have two beautiful women that love him very much...and contends that he is "in love" with me and "loves" me
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
While we can certainly sympathize and relate to people who have found themselves in affairs, and offer support, it's very difficult to
There are a few women on this board whose posts I just LOVE to read and try to
I don't know...to me all affairs are the same...people betraying people...all just a variation on a theme...only because we are individuals, each with our own story.
Yes, everyone has their
I've only got a minute here.
Oh jazz, you're such a right fighter...and I guess for you , ignorance is bliss...how sad.
Yeah, you better get going, I'm sure there are a few drunk drivers on the road that you can help blame the liquor stores and bars that got them there....
Thanks Bell, didn't I already said you're one of my hero in one of them these here threads??? Yeah, you are!
;)
"People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within."
- Ramona L. Anderson
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