Bah Humbug Rant
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Bah Humbug Rant
| Tue, 12-16-2008 - 1:52am |
Dear AP's Wife -
Please keep your husband reined in and fix whatever his problem is. If you knew about me, you would be devestated. I do know about you, although I would prefer not to know as much as I do. Something is apparently wrong with your marriage that you are completely oblivious to and your husband has chosen to make my life an emotional hell. The irony being, I would like to be with him and I know about you, and it is unjust to both of us. He is too afraid of hurting you or leaving you, but it is apparenlty OK for him

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That "bitterness" you're hearing is coming from inside your own head survivor.
honestly i believe what he says...my heart is open and on my sleeve and i've allowed myself to become involved with someone who is committed to their family....that's on me....what i will say is that my AP is very
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
Oh, you responded to me...thought you had me on ignore.
You're right, sending the flowers was not a nice thing to do, but enither is sleeping with someone
else's SO or H or W. Most A's are manipulative and deceitful in every sense, flowers are not
out of context. :0
Hey,
Wow - what a thread!!
First - my apologies to all for being late to the party - if you read my other thread you know why.
I'm not going to try to cover everything that has been discussed here - I think you all did a fine job on your own - so let me touch on a few things that jump out at me.
First and foremost - this is a Support board - and as any of you who have been around for a while know - I'll fight to the death to keep it supportive.
tgrbabe, you are just SO sweet, and kind. Not to mention graceful. It's hard for me to picture you white knuckling the phone wondering if he is going to call, or second guessing yourself the way that ONLY an A can make you do. I thank you for all the wisdom that you have passed on to us, and for all your heartfelt kind words at just the right time.
Again, thank you.
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