been there done that

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Registered: 11-11-2008
been there done that
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Tue, 11-11-2008 - 2:42pm

I'm not here to piss anyone off, but to all of you that thinks this is great - good luck!


I have been there, done that!

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Registered: 02-09-2008
Tue, 11-11-2008 - 8:59pm

Thank you for sharing. I'm sorry you feel that your life was ruined. Your opinions are your own and you are completely entitled to them. Your warning may be just what some here need to finish off something that isn't working for them.

I have hopes, but I do not have expectations. I may very well get my heart broken, but I am aware of that too, but I wouldn't give up the attention, affection and connection I share with AP now because of something that will or won't happen in the future. I very much believe in the saying it's better to have loved and lost than never loved at all, because love is such a special thing, no matter how fleeting.

Pisces




Edited 11/23/2008 8:49 pm ET by pisces2008
pisces
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Registered: 06-08-2007
Tue, 11-11-2008 - 9:58pm
Honestly I'm so very sorry for your pain. I believe your advice can be rigjht for some one who expects the moon in their affair, but I don't. I take one day, one month at a time.I have no expectations. My ap and I do love one another, I cherish the time and the love. I know one day this will end. Honestly I wouldn't give up the love, time, and attention with my ap for the world. He never promised me the moon, and no expectations. I love and enjoy one day at a time.
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Registered: 05-18-2007
Wed, 11-12-2008 - 6:36pm

I have to say that I think its very possible for anyone in an affair to get burned.