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The best way to respond
| Wed, 05-19-2004 - 10:35am |
I lurk here every now and then but have never posted. I am M, but have a friend that I talk to every day and have for 7 months. He is unhappy in his M and I am at times but not so bad you know. I have always known that he feels more towards me than I do for him. He knows this too, it's no secret.
Anyways, I have felt for a long time that I need to stop him before he gets too far in. Well today I know that I have to just tell him that it's got to stop. He told me this morning that he is in love with me and he has never been in love with someone like this ever. Not even is wife ! I can't continue to let him do this to himself. It's not right.
What would be the best way to tell him that that it's got to end now and be nice about it ?

It is never "easy" to do this kind of thing, you just have to put yourself in their shoes and think about how you would want to be treated. The "love" thing really makes it tougher but you can't keep it up if you don't feel that way
good luck
dd