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| Sun, 11-23-2008 - 5:01pm |
hello, i wont make this long. but in a nutshell, my fiance and i have been together for 5 years, will be getting married in may. our relationship is wonderful. i love

i know what you are saying. passion is not always there, but the love is there.
I think the guilt fades with time.
Muffin,
I got married to my H because he was amazing guy. I never felt much passion for him, he never made me feel very desirable, beautiful and sexy either - all the things that women want. It seems to be not that important at the time - I wanted to start a family with a reliable and caring partner, everything else I thought, will fall into place.
Well, it did not. It got worse. Now, two affairs later (and I do not speak of FWB arrangements or short flings, there were serious full blown affairs with all the feelings involved) I realize that I should have never married to my H. What was missing, will always be missing, and passion is a big thing to miss.
Good luck to you. Let the guilt go. And think hard how would you feel 5 or 10 years down the road, when another hot guy will hit on you.
(((Hugs)))
Vivacious
thank you all so much for your input. i will hopefully let go of the guilt. I only fear that he never