birthday decision

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-02-2008
birthday decision
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Tue, 12-02-2008 - 5:30pm

Hello All,


I have been here back and forth for a year now. Even been over to the EAS board a time or two to help me in my quest to leave this man alone. This is the only place where I can be honest with myself and those who are in the same boat as I. I have been seeing my AP for a little over 2 years now. I have tried and tried to break things off with this MM. I am single and not really interested in dating a single man right now as I am so emotionally beat up from the highs and lows of this A. We had a huge blow out in the summer and I thought it was over. I prayed for it to be over, but he kept calling and I kept talking and somehow after 5 months of no sex and just communication and dinners and lunches

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-18-2008
Tue, 12-02-2008 - 5:51pm

It won't...

Carrrrrried...away2
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-02-2008
Tue, 12-02-2008 - 6:16pm

Thanks for responding. I don't know what I am hoping to see or what I may feel about seeing my

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-24-2008
Tue, 12-02-2008 - 6:19pm

I have to agree w/ Carriedaway. Seeing them together will not cure your feelings for AP. If the torture of the highs, and lows of this rollercoaster aren't enough to make you stop, then seeing the W won't do it either. Besides, it's really inappropriate. It's bad enough that your sleeping w/ her H, but to invade on her territory is a whole new low. I mean if the party was being held at his marital house would you still go? I would think not, but that's just me. I don't mean to sound judgemental, but you have to have SOME boundaries. The two of you can celebrate w/ dinner together, and maybe a room afterward (your treat.)

I say NO don't go!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2007
Tue, 12-02-2008 - 6:40pm

Hi Tryn -


I have to agree with the other two ladies - absolutely I would NOT go.

lightning in my heart