A bit down today...for whatever reason

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Registered: 04-16-2004
A bit down today...for whatever reason
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Wed, 05-12-2004 - 9:22am
I don't know what it is...I must be going through some crazy funk.
cl-noregretsyet (co-cl of MAS board)
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Wed, 05-12-2004 - 9:29am
Anytime ;-) I wish I could come and join you for that marg and movie night :-) I need one too! Hang in there...its the realization that the emotional coaster is coming to an end (somewhat). You will be fine - if you have made it this far, you will be just fine :-) Just enjoy yourself - look around you and see all that is there that you have, and all that you will have...while living a life of happiness for once :-)

FMH6
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Wed, 05-12-2004 - 9:30am
NRY

You are going through a major life change! Even if it is what you want there is something you are mourning about the life you are leaving. It is normal, kinda like being homesick.

The thing I love about these kind of days is time cures it all. My late Mother n Law used to always say when I was blue... "it'll all work out". And guess what? It always does!

Count me in for margarita night!

dd

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Registered: 04-16-2004
Wed, 05-12-2004 - 9:55am
Thanks....you girls are awesome!
cl-noregretsyet (co-cl of MAS board)
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Wed, 05-12-2004 - 10:19am
((((nry)))))))))

No matter how content and happy you feel most of time with your D and decisions, this is still a very stressful time. D is a the top of the list, and moving I think is second. On top of all that, your R with MM is constantly on your mind.

It's okay to have down days. We all do! And we are all here for you on those days as we are on the good ones as well.

Take care

Red

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Registered: 04-14-2004
Wed, 05-12-2004 - 11:31am
I'm sorry you are feeling down. I'm fairly new here and have been reading your posts since my arrival. Under the circumstances, I can understand why are a little down. You have been under so much stress. I read somewhere that a divorce, even one that is welcome, will eventually put you in a state that is equal to grieving the loss of a loved one. That may be it; you are grieving "What could have been" and starting a new path in life. That is a lot for anyone to cope with.

Take extra good care of yourself; eat right, exercise, keep positive thoughts and stay around positive people.

"this too shall pass"

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Wed, 05-12-2004 - 11:49am
(((NRY)))

~Flirty~