Bittersweet...am I imagining things?

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Registered: 05-17-2003
Bittersweet...am I imagining things?
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Sun, 08-30-2009 - 4:47am

Hi everyone,


It's possible that this belongs in the Vent section but, my connection is very iffy so I think I'll just let it out here.


I guess I'm just looking for some feedback on the latest turn of events in my whacky little life here. And if I'm repeating myself I'll apologize now :0)


My last post was regarding my BF's return from vacation, and how happy I was (he really did make me feel like a priority when he came to see me ASAP after he landed). Unfortunately he did not spend the night like he usually does, which really sucked...but I knew he hadn't been home for a while. I realized that he probably had a bunch of stuff to do around the house and just let him be. I knew that I would see him the next day anyway, and except for having to do a bit of grocery shopping...I waited all morning to hear from him, at times feeling quite pathetic for doing so.


He phoned me early afternoon and, out of the blue, asked me if I'd like to go on a road trip with him! I

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Registered: 04-05-2007
Sun, 08-30-2009 - 10:10am

For what it's worth, I don't think his brothers bought the story either. It's even possible that he's already told them about you, but didn't want you to feel embarrassed about them knowing. Obviously he didn't try to use that story with his son, so he must have known how weak it was.

I would say enjoy the good times and see what happens. No one can say if this means anything for the future. Time will always tell eventually. One day at a time!

As for the future trip - wouldn't his wife be going to a family birthday celebration, especially if her son lives in the area?

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Registered: 05-17-2003
Sun, 08-30-2009 - 5:21pm

Hi lexione,


Thanks for your reply...I appreciate the